Restorative Divorce® Services & Pricing

A Smarter Pricing Approach to Divorce & Co-Parenting

At Birt Family Law, we offer a structured, resolution-focused approach to divorce, mediation, and co-parenting. Our Restorative Divorce® process empowers individuals and families to move forward with clarity, confidence, and a well-defined plan—including a transparent, flexible pricing model designed to support your goals, not complicate them.

Quick Links: 

• How Our Process Works
• Our Service Tiers
• Our Pricing Model
• Next Steps

How Our Process Works

Birt Family Law’s Restorative Divorce® process includes four clear steps: screening call, planning session, choosing a fee structure, and signing the agreement to begin.

Step 1: Free 15-Minute Call (Screening & Fit Assessment)

To determine if we are the right fit for your needs, we offer a free 15-minute call:

• - General Inquiries: Speak with our paralegal to discuss your situation.
• - If we're a good fit, we'll recommend an in-depth Personalized Planning Session with Erin Birt.
• - Referrals & Clients Seeking Mediation: Speak directly with Erin Birt to understand your options.

Step 2: Personalized Planning Session

• - A paid planning session with Erin Birt to dive deeper into your legal, mediation, or co-parenting needs.
• - After the session, you'll receive a customized service pathway and pricing estimate.

Step 3: Choose Your Service Plan

Based on your needs, you will receive a proposal for either:

• - Flat Fee Package (Basic, Standard, or Premium)
  • Structured services with predictable pricing.
  • Hourly add-ons available for extra services beyond scope.
• - Hourly Retainer
  • For complex or ongoing cases requiring more flexibility.

Step 4: Service Agreement & Next Steps

Once you choose a pricing option, we send a service agreement outlining the scope, terms, and payment structure. Upon signing, your Restorative Divorce® process begins!

Our Service Tiers

Each piece matters. Choose the service level that fits your family’s needs.

Level 1: Basic DIY Divorce (Self-Guided Option)

For individuals who want to handle their divorce independently but need structured guidance.

• - Includes:
  • The Kitchen Table Divorce™ eBook (legal & logistical guidance)
  • 90-Day Restorative Divorce® Workbook (emotional & mindset support)
• - Additional Option:
  • $400 DIY Review Session (to review your agreements before filing)

Level 2: Standard Guided Mediation Or Limited Scope Legal Services

For couples needing structured support while staying out of court, or individuals needing legal guidance on past agreements or modifications.

• - May Include:
  • Mediation Sessions (Parenting, Financial, Holiday Planning, etc.)
  • Mediation for Review of Prior Agreements (for clients who already have agreements but want a legal/mediation review)
  • Limited Scope Legal Services (focused guidance without full representation)
  • Modifications of Parenting or Support Agreements
  • 90-Day Workbook for mindset & personal growth
  • Children's Book (for parents to help kids adjust)
• - Additional Option:
  • Mediation Wrap-Up Package (final agreement review)

Level 3: Premium Full Support Divorce & Co-Parenting Strategy

For families and individuals needing comprehensive guidance and professional collaboration.

• - Includes:
  • Comprehensive Mediation or Uncontested Legal Divorce Services
  • 90-Day Restorative Divorce® Workbook
  • Children's Book (for parents supporting children through divorce)
  • Personalized Co-Parenting Guidance
  • Collaboration with Other Professionals
    • Divorce Coach
    • Financial Professional
    • Counselor/Therapist
• - Additional Option:
  • Post-Divorce Check-Ins (3-6 months later for continued support)

Pricing Transparency & Hybrid Model

We do not publicly list flat fees due to the unique needs of each case. Instead, after your Planning Session, we provide a customized quote with:

✔ Flat Fee Package Options (Basic, Standard, or Premium)
✔ Hourly Retainer for more flexible, ongoing needs
✔ Hybrid Pricing: Flat fee services with hourly add-ons for extra support

We accept major credit cards, checks, cash, and payment plans via ClientCredit + Affirm.

A Note from Mediator and Attorney Erin Birt

Most amicable divorces with some legal or mediation support cost between $7,500–$8,500 per person in the Chicagoland area, based on my 20+ years of experience helping families navigate divorce respectfully and efficiently.

Nationally, the American Bar Association reports that mediated divorces average $5,000–$7,000, while contested cases often exceed $15,000–$20,000 per person. I offer both flat-fee and hourly service options so you can choose the approach that best fits your needs, case complexity, and communication style.

Total costs vary based on how prepared each person is, how emotions are managed, and the couple's ability to reach practical agreements. My goal is to provide structure, clarity, and calm momentum to reduce unnecessary costs—while making sure you feel supported along the way.

If you're seeking a process that aligns with your values and your budget, I invite you to explore the Restorative Divorce® approach.

Download your Restorative Divorce® services & pricing guide to take the next step.

Next Steps

✔ Book Your Free 15-Minute Call to see if we're a good fit.

✔ Schedule a Personalized Planning Session for a clear roadmap.

✔ Move forward with a structured, resolution-focused plan.

You can schedule your free call or in-depth planning session, here.