Restorative Divorce® Pathway

Restorative Divorce® Pathway

A Family-Centered Approach to Divorce, Healing, and Growth

At Birt Family Law, we've developed a unique, structured pathway that helps parents, children, and families move through the divorce process with clarity, care, and long-term focus. The Restorative Divorce® Pathway consists of three foundational tools that meet families where they are and guide them forward with strength and intention.

Quick Links: 

• Prepare - The Kitchen Table Divorce® eBook
• Support - Rudy & Ali Children's Book Series
• Grow - The 90-Day Restorative Divorce® Workbook
• How These Tools Work Together
• Next Steps

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1. The Kitchen Table Divorce® eBook

For Preparation & Minimizing Legal Involvement

Designed for individuals or couples exploring separation outside the courtroom, this eBook provides:

• A self-paced guide to organizing your thoughts and understanding your options

• Tips for preparing for mediation or early negotiation

• A framework to reduce attorney-driven conflict and keep control in your hands

Best For: Parents who want to begin the divorce conversation with clarity and minimize legal escalation.

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2. Rudy & Ali Children's Book Series (Coming Summer 2025)

For Supporting Children Emotionally During Divorce

Gentle stories told through the eyes of Rudy and Ali, two Clumber spaniels who help children:

• Understand big changes and who the helpers are — like companion animals, teachers, therapists, child specialists, or in some families, a Guardian ad Litem (GAL)

• Feel safe, heard, and supported throughout changes in their family

• Navigate complex emotions with comfort and hope

Each book includes a tear-out Parent Resource Guide with tips and insights from the author's 20+ years of experience.

Best For: Parents of children ages 4–8 who want age-appropriate tools for emotional support.

  Preorder the Rudy & Ali Children's Book

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3. The 90-Day Restorative Divorce® Workbook

For Healing, Growth & Future Planning

A structured workbook to guide clients through:

• Emotional reflection and regulation

• Co-parenting strategies and mindset shifts

• Daily affirmations, self-care, and future goal setting

Used during or after mediation or legal services, this workbook helps reinforce long-term stability and personal transformation.

Best For: Individuals seeking clarity, confidence, and empowerment through and beyond divorce.

  Order the 90-Day Restorative Divorce® Workbook

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How These Tools Work Together

Whether you're just beginning to consider divorce or rebuilding after a finalized separation, the Restorative Divorce® Pathway offers practical support every step of the way. These resources are grounded in over two decades of family law and mediation experience — helping you make informed decisions, protect your children's well-being, and move forward with confidence.

Each tool is designed to stand alone or work together as part of a holistic, client-centered approach to separation and healing.

Work one-on-one with our paralegal or attorney as you move through The Kitchen Table Divorce® eBook. Create a calming evening ritual by reading a Rudy & Ali children's book with your child. And plan for a better future by working through the 90-Day Restorative Divorce® Workbook — either independently or with guidance from our team — over just 90 days.

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Want help choosing the best place to start?

Reach out for a free 15-minute call to explore how the Restorative Divorce® Pathway can help your family.

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Restorative Divorce® and The Kitchen Table Divorce® are registered trademarks of Erin N Birt and The Law Firm of Erin N Birt PC. All materials are protected and developed through over two decades of family law and mediation experience.