🌿 The Restorative Divorce® Pathway Scholarship
Supporting the Next Generation of Resilience & Hope - Privately Funded by Birt Family Law through our Restorative Divorce® Outreach
👉 Applications for the 2026/27 scholarship cycle will open in August 2026.
- Introduction
- Purpose
- Scholarship Details
- Eligibility
- Essay
- How to Apply
- How We Use
- How We Select
- Integrity & Transparency
- Scholarship Recipients
At Birt Family Law, we've spent decades guiding parents through one of life's most difficult transitions—divorce or separation—with clarity, compassion, and dignity. As part of our Restorative Divorce® Outreach, we are proud to offer a privately funded scholarship to support the next generation of young adults who've grown through these challenging circumstances.
The Restorative Divorce® Pathway Scholarship is a privately funded award offered by Birt Family Law to support Illinois students who have experienced parental divorce or separation. This scholarship honors resilience, reflection, and the personal growth that can emerge from navigating a family transition. As part of our broader Restorative Divorce® Pathway initiative including our eBook, workbook, and children's book series, this scholarship reflects our commitment to helping families and communities move forward with clarity and care.
This annual scholarship invites students to reflect on how their experience as a child of divorce or separation has shaped their path, their growth, and their sense of purpose.
💡 Purpose
The Restorative Divorce® Pathway Scholarship is designed to:
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- Honor the stories of students whose parents have divorced or separated
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- Celebrate personal growth and resilience in the face of family change
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- Encourage reflection and emotional insight through writing
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- Provide financial support for college-bound or enrolled students
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- Raise awareness about the real experiences and insights of children of divorce through anonymized storytelling
This is not about reliving the hardest parts of your story—it's about showing how far you've come and how that experience has shaped who you are becoming.
🎓 Scholarship Details
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- Award Amount: $1,000
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- Deadline to Apply: October 31, 2026
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- Recipient Announced: December 1, 2026
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- How Funds Are Disbursed: The scholarship will be paid directly to the student after verification of enrollment or acceptance at an accredited college, university, or trade program. Proof of enrollment must be submitted no later than May 15, 2027. Funds will be disbursed in Spring 2027.
📝 Eligibility Criteria
Applicants must:
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- Be a current resident of Illinois (regardless of where they attend school)
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- Be at least 17 years old and 18 by the time of disbursement
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- Be a U.S. citizen or permanent resident
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- Have experienced parental divorce or separation
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- Be enrolled or planning to enroll in an accredited college, university, or trade program
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- Be in good academic standing with a minimum GPA of 2.5
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- Submit a complete application, including your original essay
📌 Note: If you are not currently enrolled or accepted, you may still apply. If selected, your award will be held until you provide proof of enrollment or acceptance (no later than May 15, 2027). Applicants must be at least 17 years old at the time of application. If selected, funds will be disbursed only after the recipient turns 18 and submits proof of enrollment by May 15, 2027. This ensures we comply with best practices for consent and payment.
✍️ Essay Prompt
"How has your parents' divorce or separation influenced your personal growth, goals, or resilience? What have you learned about yourself through this experience?"
Requirements:
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- 500–750 words
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- Typed, double-spaced
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- Submit as a PDF or Word document
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- Honest, reflective, and forward-looking in tone
📬 How to Apply
Please submit the following by October 31, 2026:
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- Your full name, date of birth, and contact information
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- Proof of Illinois residency (e.g., state ID, transcript with address, or current utility bill)
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- The name of your school and either:
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Proof of current enrollment, or
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A brief statement of your intent to enroll in 2027
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- A copy of your most recent transcript (unofficial is fine)
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- Your essay in response to the prompt
📤 Submit via email to: [email protected]
Subject line: Scholarship Application – [Your Full Name]
📄 Download the Scholarship Packet (PDF) to share with schools, counselors, or students.
📣 How We Use These Stories
All submitted essays are treated with care and confidentiality. While your name and any identifying details will never be shared, we may use anonymized excerpts from your story to:
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- Educate the public about the experiences of children of divorce
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- Inspire families going through separation
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- Promote healing-centered approaches to family transitions
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- Support the growth and impact of the Restorative Divorce® Outreach
By applying for this scholarship, you acknowledge and agree that your story without your full name or identifying details may be shared as part of the Restorative Divorce® Outreach.
By applying, you agree that if selected, your name, school, and general achievements may be publicly shared. Any personal reflections or excerpts from your essay will be shared only in an anonymized manner unless additional permission is provided.
By submitting your application, you agree that, if selected, your first name and winning status may be publicly announced on our website, social media, and related outreach platforms. If the selected recipient is under 18 at the time of selection, Birt Family Law will wait to share their name publicly until after their 18th birthday.
🔍 How We Select the Recipient
Applications will be reviewed by a small panel of professionals who understand the emotional impact of divorce.
Essays will be evaluated on:
- - Relevance to the prompt
- - Depth of emotional insight and reflection
- - Clarity and quality of writing
- - Essays must be the applicant's own original work
- - Submissions created using AI tools or plagiarized content will be disqualified
The selected recipient will be notified via email by December 1, 2026, and publicly announced on our website and social media channels. The award will be disbursed in Spring 2027 once enrollment is confirmed.
Birt Family Law reserves the right not to award the scholarship in any given year if no applications meet the stated criteria for originality, depth, and reflection.
🧭 Integrity & Transparency
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- This is a privately funded scholarship administered by Birt Family Law and the Restorative Divorce® Outreach.
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- No outside donations are being accepted at this time.
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- This scholarship is not affiliated with any school, government, or public foundation.
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- Applicants are not clients of Birt Family Law and will not receive legal services as part of the award.
🌱 From Conflict to Clarity, Separation to Strength
This is more than an essay contest. It's a chance to be seen—and to be supported—by a team that truly understands what families go through.
We believe your story matters.
We believe your growth deserves to be celebrated.
And we're honored to help carry your voice forward.
Ready to Apply?
Send your complete application materials by email to
📧 [email protected]
🗓 Deadline: October 31, 2026
Have questions? We're here to support you; call us at 630-891-2478.
🌿 A Real Example of What This Work Supports
2026 Scholarship Recipient: McKenna
This year, I was honored to award the Restorative Divorce Pathway Scholarship to McKenna, whose heartfelt essay reflected on growing up as the child of divorced parents. Her story is one of resilience, compassion, and hope, reminding us that while divorce changes a family, it does not have to define a child's future. McKenna's courage in sharing her experiences reinforces the mission behind this scholarship—to support students who have faced family transitions with strength while encouraging parents to remember that the choices they make during divorce can have a lasting impact on their children.
Through the Restorative Divorce® Pathway Scholarship, we have the opportunity to hear directly from students whose lives have been shaped by family change.
Our 2025 Recognition Award recipient, Alex, shared a thoughtful perspective after growing up between two homes. What stood out most was his insight:
“Divorce was not the end of the world. It was difficult, but it taught me that things usually work out, even if not in the way you expected.”
He also reflected on the stability his parents worked to maintain across both households, something that continues to shape who he is today. He is now heading to Illinois State University to study social work, with the goal of using his experiences to support others.
This is what the Restorative Divorce® Pathway is designed to support, not just resolving the legal process but creating a foundation where children can grow, adapt, and move forward with strength.
Katie shared a thoughtful and deeply personal essay about the long-term emotional impact of her parents' divorce, including the ways divorce affected both her parents and, in turn, shaped her childhood experience.
Her story highlighted resilience, emotional growth, and the reality that children often quietly carry burdens they were never meant to bear. Through honesty, perseverance, and self-awareness, Katie demonstrated remarkable strength and was selected as a recipient of the Restorative Divorce® Pathway Scholarship.
Katie will spend the summer teaching young children to swim and then she will head off to Baldwin Wallace to continue her education.
Her story reflects why child-centered communication, emotional awareness, and Divorce Court Prevention strategies matter so deeply for parents and families navigating divorce and family law transitions.
