The Kitchen Table Divorce® Tailored Solutions for Amicable Divorces

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Introduction to The Kitchen Table Divorce®

Welcome to The Kitchen Table Divorce®, a service offered by The Law Firm of Erin N. Birt, P.C. (Birt Family Law). Our approach is centered around empowering couples to navigate divorce with control and clarity.

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The Kitchen Table Divorce (KTD) allows couples to minimize costs by negotiating agreements themselves, tailored to their unique needs and circumstances. You can read more from our podcast transcript about our experiences with a Kitchen Table Divorce and please feel free to assess here whether it is a good fit.

The kitchen table has long been used as a metaphor for resolving family issues, and The Kitchen Table Divorce extends this concept to the divorce process. It's about finding practical, cost-effective solutions outside of the courtroom. As Erin Birt explains:

"The Kitchen Table Divorce is about couples taking control of their divorce process and finding practical, cost-effective solutions."

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Our Approach to The Kitchen Table Divorce®

At The Law Firm of Erin N. Birt, P.C. (Birt Family Law), we believe in providing couples with the tools and resources to handle divorce discussions directly. This approach fosters mutual understanding and promotes agreements that reflect the parties' priorities and concerns. We will supply you with materials such as a journal, workbook, and agendas to make your conversations and meetings most productive.

The Kitchen Table Divorce® guide by Erin Birt, a structured approach to navigating divorce with clarity and confidence

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Flat Fees & Services Offered for The Kitchen Table Divorce®

Our fee structure is designed to accommodate various divorce complexities:

  • - Flat Fee: Suitable for straightforward cases where agreements can be finalized efficiently with our team's guidance and expertise. This is a 90 day program. You can pay upfront or apply for a more flexible payment plan via ClientCredit. You will receive prioritized meetings with Erin, tailored strategies and personalized solutions, access to our comprehensive network of professionals, and ease of mind while securing a court-approved settlement.
  • - KTD Self-Paced Course: At home and self-paced, The Kitchen Table Divorce course includes a flat fee, guidebook, streamlined process, and for the person that purchased the course: a 30 min educational zoom meeting with Erin.

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Tips & Beneficial Information for Starting The Kitchen Table Divorce®

  • - Outline Discussion Points: Before diving into discussions, it's crucial to outline the topics that need to be addressed. Erin Birt emphasizes the importance of preparation:

    "Developing an outline is key to navigating emotionally challenging topics and ensuring focus during discussions, The Kitchen Table Divorce gives you the tools to have challenging conversations and be productive."

  • - Be Open to Multiple Discussions: Erin highlights the value of taking time and being open to multiple discussions:

    "There's often an impulse to get everything knocked out in one meeting at home or with our team. It's better to take more time and ensure that the overall agreement is mutually agreed upon and in everyone's best interests. That is the primary focus of The Kitchen Table Divorce."

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FAQ About The Kitchen Table Divorce®

Do I need an attorney for The Kitchen Table Divorce® in DuPage County or the Wheaton area?

An attorney can help ensure your agreements meet Illinois legal requirements, address all necessary topics, and are properly finalized with the court.

At Birt Family Law, Erin Birt, a divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience serving DuPage County, Wheaton, Naperville, and surrounding Illinois communities, provides guidance for parents who want to resolve their divorce without unnecessary court involvement, while still getting clear answers and a structured path forward.

➡️ Learn how legal guidance fits into your process or schedule a 15-minute call to see if this approach is right for you.


Is The Kitchen Table Divorce® a good fit for parents in Illinois?

The Kitchen Table Divorce® is often a good fit for parents in Illinois who:
• Are relatively amicable
• Have straightforward financial situations
• Want to stay out of court
• Are open to a more organized, practical approach

If there are more complex issues, additional support may be appropriate. Birt Family Law works with parents throughout DuPage County and nearby communities and can help determine the right level of support, including connecting you with trusted professionals when needed.

Assess if The Kitchen Table Divorce for you, here.

➡️ See how the process works or start with a 15-minute call to talk through your situation.


What does The Kitchen Table Divorce® cost in Illinois?

Costs depend on the level of support needed.

Most clients in DuPage County, Wheaton, and surrounding Illinois areas begin with a free 15-minute call to discuss their goals. From there, you will receive a flat fee quote based on your situation, with transparent pricing and no unnecessary steps.

➡️ Visit the pricing page or schedule your call to get a clear starting point.

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Getting Started with Us

Contact The Law Firm of Erin N. Birt, P.C. (Birt Family Law) to begin The Kitchen Table Divorce journey. We offer personalized support and legal guidance to ensure your agreements are comprehensive, legally sound, and ready for a court's review. For inquiries or to schedule a free 15 min introductory telephone call, please call us at (630) 891-2478 or submit a contact form.

Navigate your divorce with control and confidence through The Kitchen Table Divorce®. We're here to assist you every step of the way.

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Recent Case Results

  • Mediation provided clarity and direction during a child’s medical crisis, helping parents align decisions, reduce fear, and avoid escalation. Read On

  • With structure and support, mediation helped a parent move from self-doubt to confident participation in shaping their future. Read On

  • This mediation story shows how adapting to each parent’s emotional pace helped a family move forward without pressure or resentment. Read On

Protecting Your Children’s Future Starts Here

With 20+ years of courtroom and Guardian ad Litem experience, I understand how court decisions are made, what judges consider, and where the process often breaks down for families. My work focuses on helping parents avoid unnecessary court conflict whenever possible to minimize harm to children.

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We work with parents in two ways:

Individually, when one parent is seeking answers and legal guidance.
Together, when both parents are ready to resolve matters through mediation.

Both options are structured so you’re not waiting on the court system for next steps.

Are we the right fit for you?

Birt Family Law is committed to keeping the separating family out of court and working together towards a positive resolution.

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