Start Here: A Clear Path Through Divorce
If you are looking for a more thoughtful, organized way to move through divorce, this is where many parents begin.
The Kitchen Table Divorce® offers a structured starting point to help you organize your thoughts, reduce uncertainty, and begin making informed decisions before involving the court.
You can begin in the way that feels right for you. This resource is offered in three formats below.
Choose Your Starting Point
Free Chapter (PDF) of The Kitchen Table Divorce®
If you're feeling unsure where to begin, this free chapter from The Kitchen Table Divorce® offers clarity and structure for your first steps.
- A checklist to help you organize your thoughts and documents
- A real client story to show how others started from the same place
- Guidance for when to reach out for legal or mediation support
There's no signup required. Just click below to open or download your copy.
📘 Download Chapter 2: A Well-Set Table
The Kitchen Table Divorce® eBook ($9.99)
For those who prefer immediate access and privacy, the full guide is available as an eBook.
- Complete step-by-step structure
- Read at your own pace
- Ideal while you are gathering information and considering your options
Learn more about how this guide is used in practice and while working with Erin.
Paperback Version of The Kitchen Table Divorce® Book ($12.99)
Many parents prefer a physical copy to work through as they begin making decisions.
- Structured and easy to follow
- Useful during discussions and planning
- Often used alongside Erin's planning sessions
This framework is part of a structured approach used in Erin's divorce planning session and during her legal guidance.
Looking for more guidance?
If this chapter helped you feel more organized and informed, you may benefit from our other guides.
While using The Kitchen Table Divorce® Book, some parents also find it helpful to use the Co-Parent Decision Toolkit™, which offers a structured approach to discussing school, health, and activity-related decisions outside of court.
To maximize your results with The Kitchen Table Divorce® Book and The Co-Parent Decision Toolkit, schedule your planning session with Erin today.
Frequently Asked Questions about The Kitchen Table Divorce® Book
How do I start a divorce without going to court?
Many parents begin by getting organized before filing anything. That includes thinking through parenting, finances, and priorities. The Kitchen Table Divorce® was created as a structured way to take these first steps before involving the court.
Do I need a lawyer to start a divorce?
Not always. Some parents choose to prepare first so they can use legal or mediation support more efficiently when they are ready. The Kitchen Table Divorce® helps guide that early preparation so you are not starting from scratch.
How do I prepare for divorce before filing?
Preparation includes understanding your finances, thinking through parenting arrangements, and getting clear on your priorities. The Kitchen Table Divorce® walks through each of these areas in a structured, step-by-step way.
What is the best way to stay out of court during divorce?
Starting with structure and clarity often leads to more productive discussions and better outcomes. Many parents use The Kitchen Table Divorce® alongside mediation to stay focused, organized, and out of unnecessary court involvement.
