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Resolving Parenting Disputes for the Best Interests of a Teen Daughter

April 2024

Case Study: Resolving Parenting Disputes for the Best Interests of a Teen Daughter

Understanding the Challenge: Parenting Conflicts Amidst Divorce

In a challenging custody dispute, Erin Birt was appointed to a case of a devoted mother (let's call her Sarah*) and her husband (John*), who were embroiled in conflicts over their teenage daughter's well-being during divorce proceedings. Sarah was concerned about her daughter's relationship with John, who she felt lacked genuine interest in their daughter's life beyond occasional visits. Conversely, John believed Sarah was controlling and prone to angry outbursts, affecting their daughter's perception of him negatively.

Navigating Complexities: Legal Approach and Mediation

The odds were daunting—deep-rooted conflicts, differing parenting styles due to an age-gap, and personal grievances clouded the path towards resolution. Erin, our experienced family law attorney, meticulously investigated the case guided by Illinois IMDMA (Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act). Erin facilitated settlement conferences utilizing her mediation skills to foster constructive dialogue. Through extensive interviews and assessments, Erin identified the best interests of their daughter, focusing on academic performance, social interactions, and extracurricular activities.

Achieving Resolution: Preventing Litigation and Restoring Order

Remarkably, within 30 days of potential custody trial, Erin achieved a breakthrough. Through persistent negotiations and skilled communication, she secured a resolution that prioritized the teen's emotional stability and future well-being. This solution averted prolonged court battles, preventing further family distress. Sarah and John gained clarity on co-parenting roles & schedule, embracing healthier communication and compromise. Erin's intervention repaired trust and understanding, fostering a more stable environment for the daughter post-divorce.

*Names and specific details have been altered to protect client confidentiality and privacy.

Practice area(s): Child Custody

Court: DuPage County

Erin Birt

Since 2003, Erin N. Birt, J.D., CADC has focused her practice on parenting time, divorce, mediation, and substance abuse issues. Ms. Birt's unique background in both family law and addictions counseling help her clients successfully navigate the complex issues of coparenting and divorce. Ms. Birt also devotes her time to presenting at continuing education seminars for attorneys, mediators, and counselors.

Family Centered Divorce ∙ Mediation ∙ Co-Parenting

Birt Family Law is the family centered law and mediation practice with a focus on Restorative Divorce; offering creative and supportive legal and mediation solutions with one goal: keeping the separating family out of court and working together towards a positive resolution.

We offer multiple options to achieve this goal including mediation, coaching, co-parenting strategies, and restorative divorce services. 

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